Adolescent Application
Hi! My name is Jamie Elizabeth Rowe and I am a college freshman. I am 19 years old. Please use she/her pronouns when referring to me!
Basic InformationFull Name: Jamie Elizabeth Rowe
Nickname, if Any: none
Age: 19
Birthday: September 9th
Sex: Female
Pronouns: She/Her
Current Grade/Year in School, if Applicable: College Freshman
Current Occupation, if Applicable: Animal Center Volunteer, Server at Hinter Den Sieben Bergen
Special Needs: encouragement to be social with other adolescents
AppearanceHeight: 5'5"
Build: athletic
Hair Color: blonde
Eye Color: green
Distinguishing Features: pierced ears
Brief Description: Jamie is blessed to be "conventionally pretty," with blonde hair styled into a long wolf cut, large blue eyes, a straight nose that turns up at the end, and a subtle smile. She works hard to take good care of her appearance, setting aside money every week to have her eyebrows done and investing in a quality skincare routine. On the other hand, she wears minimal makeup, in part because she doesn't need it to improve her appearance and in part because she's protecting her skin from the chemicals in the makeup she might otherwise use. She also takes good care of her body, which is how she can maintain her slender, athletic frame seemingly without putting a lot of effort into it. For the most part, Jamie is a casual dresser, preferring jeans and t-shirts or hoodies over anything that's commonly "in-style." As much as she cares about her appearance, she doesn't want to allow it to define her, and her casual dress helps to take some of the common attention off of her.
PersonalityWhat are your greatest strengths? humble; kind; conscientious; hard-working; gentle; compassionate; self-motivated; calm; studious
What are your greatest weaknesses? sarcastic; anxious; withdrawn; shy; bookish; nerdy; socially-awkward; private
What do you struggle with? Jamie is
extremely shy, to the point that she clams up in social situations in which she is not personally in control
What are your hobbies or interests? reading; studying; astronomy; swimming; journaling; scrapbooking
What do you really enjoy? reading; swimming; school; fresh, leather-bound journals; completed planners; large book stores; home libraries; sunny days in the hammock outside; self-help books; church on Sunday mornings; spending time alone; science fiction novels; Star Trek
What do you really dislike? being forced to be social; being told where she can go and when; sudden changes to routine; being corrected for making mistakes; being called
shy; being approached by large dogs; the argument that some adolescents make that they're "too old for this;" crowds
What are your favorite things? an old, tattered stuffed bear left over from her childhood; the quilt her grandmother made her; the library
What do you fear? large dogs
Describe your personality in 100-500 words: People's first impression of Jamie is generally that she's
very nice. She's respectful, calm, has a strong sense of sonder for her age, and leans toward polite interactions without ever getting too deep with people. This often results in people only scratching the surface of her personality when they first meet her, and while most people like her, they often leave the interaction feeling as though she's a bit "spacey." Nothing could be further from the truth -- well, except for the fact she has a deep and abiding love for space! It's just that most people leave that first interaction feeling as though they didn't get to know anything of substance about her, and for a lot of people that translates into her not being a person of substance. If Jamie knew that people thought this about her, she would be deeply hurt, but fortunately few people have the guts to tell her something like that to her face.
Jamie doesn't like to be the center of attention. This has made a lot of her life difficult because, being very bright, she's spent a lot of time with adults focused on her growth and development and she has often felt as though she was in a fishbowl or a zoo. This has produced an interesting paradox. On the one hand, the amount of focus that has been centered on her throughout her life has resulted in stunted development, which means that she can be quite immature. On the other hand, she is incredibly self-aware and generally makes good decisions for herself -- like packing up her life and moving to Birchwood Isle at the age of 19, knowing full well what it would mean for her.
She's quiet and soft-spoken, gentle, kind, and shy. Socializing is hard for Jamie because she doesn't always understand people her own age, and she gets along best with people who are either older than she is or younger than she is. Even with those age groups, she tends to keep quiet until she knows for certain that it's her turn to say something, and then she stops when she feels that her turn is over -- which is often earlier than people actually expect her to stop speaking, making conversation with Jamie challenging at the best of times. She wants friends, of course; Every teenager wants friends. But she doesn't know well enough how to relate to other people and it has made building relationships especially challenging for her.
Relationships & BehaviorHow do you normally get along with adults? The answer is complex. Jamie generally prefers the company of adults over people her own age -- or younger, for that matter. She finds adults easier to be around and, because they have learned how to control the way they express themselves, she experiences them as less judgmental than people her own age. However, just because they have better control over their facial muscles and a better filter on their words doesn't mean that adults aren't judging Jamie. While she likes them, many adults find her strange or immature, especially at first, and for most of them, she can be something of an "acquired taste." Those who have acquired a taste for her will defend her with their dying breath, but for now it's fortunate that she doesn't know how apt they are to judge her!
How do you normally get along with teenagers? Because she isn't
like other people her own age, Jamie tends not to get along with them very well. This is not her first time being a freshman in college and so a lot of the time, when she
does open up with other people around her own age, they think she's a snob, or that she's especially nerdy (or geeky, for that matter), and she quickly feels othered and left out of their interactions. Some might find they like her if they gave her a chance, but she's so quick to shut down that regardless of their willingness to give
her a chance, she's not willing to give
them a chance, and in the end, everyone winds up getting hurt.
How do you normally get along with children? Jamie's relationships with younger children are surprisingly good. Despite her superior intellect, she relates better to kids in the middle age range (9-12 or so) than she does with teenagers and young adults. She has the capacity to sit and play with them for
hours and is great at listening to them when other people her age or older struggle to let them go on for forever. Because she's most comfortable with this age range, Jamie knows how to ask targeted questions that get kids to open up, and when they open up with her, they become close. She deeply enjoys bringing out the best in younger kids.
How independent are you? Not especially, despite her age.
How do you normally react when you get into trouble? Jamie is most inclined to accept it when she gets in to trouble. She's not the argumentative sort.
Link to your discipline sheet: click here ✅
Orphan VillageHow long have you lived at the Orphan Village? Just Arrived
Which House do you belong to? Willow House
Are you currently enrolled at the Orphan Village Academy or BWI College? BWI College
What jobs or responsibilities do you have at the Orphan Village? Jamie volunteers at the animal center and she helps out a lot with the youngest children in her house. She also tutors part time at the Orphan Village Academy.
How did you come to live at the Orphan Village? Jamie brought herself to Birchwood Isle when she learned of the Orphan Village. She is "voluntarily committed" in a manner of speaking. She felt it would be best for her.
How do you generally get along with caregivers and authority figures? Because she is polite and respectful, Jamie gets along well with most authority figures at home and at school.
How do you generally get along with younger residents? Jamie gets along best with school-aged residents of the Orphan Village.
How do you generally get along with your peers? Most of her peers find her weird.
Do you prefer to be adopted or remain in the Orphan Village? She's reluctant to admit it, but Jamie would love to be adopted.
Describe your ideal adoptive family. Jamie would do well as an only child or in a home that doesn't have other adolescents in it. She'd do well either with a lesbian couple or with a mixed-gender couple. Men make her a little bit nervous, but that's something she might be able to get over. The parents would need to understand her need for privacy and dignity and not push her academically. She doesn't need it, and pushing her makes things that much harder for her.
Is there anything else we should know about how you get along in the Orphan Village? If given the opportunity, Jamie will avoid social situations. She's very uncomfortable at community gatherings and will need to be pushed to attend, especially if and when attendance is mandatory.
BackgroundDescribe your history in 150-1000 words: Jamie was always a strange kid. Her parents, a pair of teen parents who never had the opportunity to complete their educations and therefore took low-level jobs earning minimum wage, were barely able to support her. They struggled to understand their daughter who, in the beginning, came home at least twice a week from school with notes about being disruptive in class and lacking self-control. Her parents did their best, but both were overworked and under-involved in their daughter's academic life. At first, her grandparents got involved by disciplining her for the disruptions. Lost privileges from her mother's family, firm, bare-bottom spankings from her father's family. The disruptions continued, and in the third grade, her school contacted her parents about testing her. Not knowing what else to do, they first asked if the testing was free, and then consented when told that it was covered by the school's psychologist.
Everything changed after that. Notes home now reflected that Jamie was struggling socially in school. Her parents ignored them. Teachers encouraged them to let her skip ahead to the sixth grade. They asked if they had to pay for that. The school told them know, and so they skipped her ahead to the sixth grade. Then to the eighth. She graduated high school at thirteen years old and went on to university at 14. Her academic success was significant, and her parents didn't know what to do with her. Her tuition, of course, was covered by scholarships.
Meanwhile, Jamie drowned socially. She'd been given no time to figure out who she was or what she wanted with her life. She graduated with a degree in biology because she hadn't known what to do with herself and her advisors suggested that medical school could be a good path for a gifted child like herself. Not knowing who to listen to, she did what she always did: she did what she was
told. But by the time she graduated from University at 18 years old, Jamie was exhausted mentally, emotionally, and socially. She collapsed, resulting in a two-week hospital stay, during which she learned about Birchwood Isle.
An adult in America, Jamie breathed a sigh of relief when she learned of the Orphan Village. She took the time to pack what she could, kissed her distressed parents goodbye, and set off for Birchwood Isle of her own accord, relieved that she might finally have the chance to be a kid. Now that she was legally ana dult in America.
OtherIs there anything else we need to know about you? Jamie is a true genius in a number of ways. She rejects the term "psychic" but she comes across as somewhat "gifted" in that regard, too. She's great at predicting things like odds, usually wins when gambling, and is
extremely uncomfortable with this aspect of her personality.